On July 16th we lost our friend, our first born, and furry child, Monty.
Monty joined our family in May of 1999 and has been with us for the entirety
of our family life together. His passing has left an emptiness in our home and in
our hearts. We've updated Monty's page and have added a photo gallery
of his life - from the day we brought him home, to the day we said goodbye.
At the start of summer was the soccer tryouts for the Fall season. Much to
everyone's shock, Owen was dropped from his team. While he wasn't the best
player, he was far from the worst. We're not sure why he was cut and no one
will tell us. His coach intended Owen to be one of his first picks but couldn't
be there for the tryouts and was shocked when he found out Owen was dropped.
The professional trainer also expressed his disgust at Owen being cut
and commented there were several kids he would have recommended dropping
ahead of Owen. However, the entire club was poorly managed, heavily into
cliques, and ego. After we got over the shock we were glad to be out of
there.
Owen did, however, get signed on to another team - Panther SC. It was the
first team he tried out for. He's very excited to be part of the new team,
and even happier that the team color is the same as his favorite color -
Orange!
The beginning of August was the seeding tournament in Rockford. It was the first
time his new team played together and the first game was a disaster. They
were losing 0-2 when a severe thunderstorm canceled the rest of the day. Owen
was not playing well at all and caught hell when we got to the
hotel. Sometimes it seems all that's important to him is that he has on a
uniform and is on the field... sometimes he forgets he actually needs to
play, and play well. Three more games were played the next day and they won
all three. Owen even got a goal in.
So far this season they have won every game, and by a landslide every time.
The loss of the first day's worth of games at the tournamnet meant they were
placed in a lower league than they should have been and are playing teams at
a lower skill level. Owen's been scoring tho and last week scored his first
'hat trick' of three goals in one game. He's been dreaming of this for
years!
They lost their first game this weekend at a nearby tournament. They made it
into the championship game but played against a higher level team who had no
problems playing dirty. Owen got punched in the face while he battled
another player for the ball.
Meanwhile Adam continues TaeKwonDo and has progressed to his purple belt! He
absolutely loves it and insists on having Ramen noodles for dinner on class
nights - the food of ninjas.
Summer means summer camp. The boys returned to their outdoor summer camp and
enjoyed it, tho Adam not as much. The second half of the summer we put them
in a camp at their school which promised to be fun and educational. The boys
love school and learning so they really enjoyed this, and it gave them both
a head start to the school year.
Owen returned to school a Fifth grader and Adam is now in Second Grade. Adam
has started in the Challenge Program which is at a different school, which
means he needs to catch the bus. He enjoyes this and has found a
friend to ride with. He loves his new school and teacher and is proud that
he is doing Third Grade work!
We've finally received Owen's ISAT scores from Spring 2012 : In reading he
scored a 258 (exceeds) and is in the 99th percentile nationally. In Math he
scored a 280 (exceeds) and is in the 97th percentile nationally, and in
Science he scored a 229 (upper end of meets - 237 needed to exceed) and
landed in the 73rd percentile nationally.
Our vacation this year was back to California! We were thinking of a Disney
Cruise, but after that cruise ship sank in Italy earlier this year both boys
refused to get on one. We thought about Florida (with Disney
World, Epcot, and a new Legoland) but it looked to be unbearably hot and
humid, plus we couldn't figure out a schedule. Adam expressed interest in
seeing where he was born - so California it was!
And we packed a lot in as well! Los Angeles
- especially for Adam - we took them to the Natural History Museum to see
their dinosaur exhibit, and to the La Brea Tar Pits, then down to San Diego for SeaWorld and
Legoland, then up to Lake Forest to show the boys their roots, then off to
Las Vegas and a visit to Hoover Dam. We intended on all going to see the
Beatles LOVE but Adam got sick just as we were leaving for the show and
wound up throwing up. He and Mom sat in the lobby while Owen and Dad saw the
show.
Added:
- New photos
- Updated Monty's page
- Tribute to Monty in the Photo section
05.17.2012 - Ninja-a-go-go! - Day 3728 / 2752
October - Since we didn't take a vacation this summer we
treated the boys to a weekend up at the Dells in Wisconsin where we stayed at an
indoor water park. The boys enjoyed it but we are still having an issue with
them doing anything that involves excitement. I couldn't get either of them
to do down the water slide until the end of our stay. They did, however,
enjoy multiple GoKart rides.
November -
Adam had his 7th birthday! His birthday fell on a Thursday this year so we did
a little celebration for him at home, after school. We opened his presents
then took him out to dinner. Two years ago he said he wanted to go to a
place where they sing Happy Birthday to you. We picked Chili's as it seemed like That Kind of Place. Well, it
wasn't. But while we were there the Beatles song Birthday came on over the
piped in music. I pointed this out to Adam, who didn't seem to care. But
when we asked him where he wanted to go this year he replied "I don't want
to go to Chili's even though the Beatles sing Happy Birthday to you!" In the
end he picked Red Robin. November seems a popular month of birthday's
because while we were there, there were at least SIX other birthdays. Adam
was not happy they weren't singing the traditional birthday song. However we
requested it and they politely obliged.
Speaking of Adam and Tradition, he was NOT happy that Christmas decorations
and ads were coming out even before Halloween. "Don't they know Thanksgiving
comes first?!"
The day after his birthday the boys were off school so we had his birthday
party on that night. We had it at Jump Zone again this year. We were a bit
amazed at how popular Adam seems to be. All his friends wanted to sit next
to him, and were tugging and pulling him in all directions. We observed this
again at a school social event a few days later.
The reason the boys were off school was due to Parent - Teacher confernces.
Both boys also received their report cards and received exceptional grades.
At the beginning and the end of each school year students are required to
take a
MAP test
(Measure of Acedemic Progress). The tests are taken on a
computer and are fluid, meaning if the child answers a question correctly
the test becomes harder. If they get a question wrong they get an easier
question.
Owen's scores were:
Reading : 209 (this puts Owen at the 75th percentile)
Math : 215 (this puts Owen in the 97th percenitle)
Adam's scores:
Reading : 202 (this puts Adam above the 99th percentile - the
charts tops out at 193!)
Math : 193 (this put Adam in the 93rd percentile)
Both boys are voracious readers; reading in bed every night for at least an
hour. Owen reads a book within three days.
Adam's class had a Thanksgiving Presentation. Everyone dressed in homemade
turkey costumes and sang some songs. Afterwards each child took the
microphone to announce what they were thankful for. Adam said 'Beyblades'
and his friend Caleb said 'I am thankful for Adam.'
We hit the
Chicago Toy and Game Fair again this year. The boys had a ton of fun trying
out new games and toys. There was one new game that Adam tried called
Stomple. After learning how to play the game he played a round against Mom
and royally beat her. The staff member was impressed. The game is for 8 and
up and Adam just turned 7. She felt he was very bright. On the other hand,
however, we tried a game callled Hedbanz, which is a version of the game
Celebrity Heads. Adam
had trouble with this, relying on the tip card rather than thinking up his
own questions.
December - The boys each had to write a book for Young
Authors at school. Owen wrote a book called "Superheroes vs Zombies."
Owen really got into this and in the end we had
trouble with this because he kept adding to the story! Adam, who's been fascinated
with ninjas lately, wrote a cute story called "The Ninja Who Was
Afraid of the Dark." While he had the story he wanted to tell in his head
getting him to actually write it down was an issue. We have this problem
every week. He's required to write five or six sentences each week about
something. Every week he sits there for over an hour huffing and puffing,
saying he doesn't know what to write about. To solve the problem with his
book we sat with him in front of the computer and he dictated the story
while we typed it. The book can be seen in the Art Club in the sidebar.
The boys both worked hard on their books but unfortunately the school has
stopped selecting the best books for each grade to send to the State Young
Authors Conference and instead randomly chose five books to represent the
school. We were really disappointed in this decision as after second grade the
books are a requirement. A winner could be someone who has no interest in
books or writing and couldn't care less about going. Both boys were proud of
their books and took a lot of time with them.
For Christmas Adam finally got a Nintendo DS! We picked two games for him:
Club Penguin (a popular kids game), and
Fossil Fighters (because it involved
digging for fossils, and building battle dinosaurs). The Fossil Fighters
game, bought on a whim, was a big hit. It was the only game he played for
months. Owen liked it so much he bought his own copy of the game to play.
Adam
sold his Leapster on eBay for $75!
January - Back in December, Owen's teacher started noticing
he was squinting a lot and suggested we have his eyes tested and, you
guessed it! Owen has glasses now. He doesn't wear them all the time, just
for watching tv and reading the white board at school.
March - Owen turns ten! Owen really wanted to have a
birthday party this year, and he wanted it at his indoor soccer place.
Unfortunatly this wasn't in the cards for this year. We could only book the
place on week nights, and most of his friends were going away for that
weekend anyway. But he got a big surprise when his Uncle Mike came over from
Europe during his birthday! bearing many cool soccer gifts! And, since Uncle
Mike writes for the Sunderland game programme he was able to get Owen a
birthday greeting in the next week's programme!
Meanwhile,
Uncle Mike, who enjoys playing games, challenged Adam to a few rounds of
Stomple. He lost every game!
This winter had been extremely mild (only one major snowfall)
so we took advantage of the warm weather and set out to teach Adam to ride a
bike. We tried breifly last summer but Adam was still a little too unfocused
and it didn't go so well, and then it was such a hot summer no one wanted to
go outside. It took a couple of tries but he finally got it! He has a little
trouble keeping in a straight line (and staying on the sidewalk), and
starting off, but he'll get there soon enough.
April - Last summer we were struggling with Adam's lack of
interest in soccer. He keeps saying he doesn't like it, then insists we sign
him up for it. We'd been looking for another interest for him. We tried pushing
him towards music but he never really seemed interested. Since he had been
hopping around the house like a ninja for the last six months we decided to
try him on TaeKwonDo. He couldn't be happier! He takes it very seriously
and tries his hardest every week (and insists on eating
ramen for dinner
on class nights). When his instructor asked us what we hoped
to gain from the classes we told him Adam needed help focusing and paying
attention. The instructor found this very hard to believe.
We did get quite a surprise this month. Adam's Young Author book
was chosen by Brainstormers (a traveling theater group who encourages
reading) to be made into a mini play and performed for his school! Adam
didn't find out until his name was called out during the show and he handled
it in a perfectly Adam way - with disinterest!
For years we've been wondering if Owen had some sort of
ADHD issue. We
finally addressed this issue with Owen's doctor who recognized the signs
immediately. Owen has been taking a drug in the form of a patch for several
weeks now. The patch allows us to better control when he's on the drug as it
leaves his system within an hour or two of removal. There has been a
definite change in his behavior and concentration while he's on the patch vs
days he isn't.
May - After some encouragement from his teacher, we had
Adam tested for moving up to the Challenge/Gifted school. We are pleased to
say he passed! We are in two minds on this, however. The program is not at
his school and he would have to be bussed to a different school, which we
are not happy with. On the other hand, we don't feel the our school will
properly challenge him and we would, in essencece be held back by having to
learn things at a lower level. Like now, for example, he's learning '+ 0's
and '- 1's - far below what he is capable of.
After less than two months at TaeKwonDo, Adam has been given the go ahead to
take his belt test - and he passed! He is now a Yellow Belt.
Added:
- New photos
- Two new videos! The play based on Adam's book, and his first Belt test.
- Adam's book The Ninja Who Was Afraid of the Dark